When Abby was little, getting her to sleep was a two-step process: wrap her
snugly and put her in the crib.
Now she has a strict list of rules that must be followed before she even thinks of shutting those precious eyes. Her daddy is only too quick to oblige her every wish. She is going to be in for a RUDE awakening when the new baby comes or when Jeremy starts traveling for work again.
Here is a sample of some of her joy:
Bedtime starts with a bath,
scripture story, prayer and
tooth brushing. I'm certainly okay with keeping the initial stages of the process.
Then Abby and dad lay on the couch together for about 15 minutes and cuddle.
The next step is to put Abby in bed with her monkey and two babies. She needs to two blankets on top of her and my
boppy as her pillow.
Then she will call out to help adjust the
thermostat. Jeremy lets her press the up/down button.
Next the humidifier must be turned on. Abby loves to watch the steam come out.
Then she requests a warm bottle of milk to drink while she contemplates sleep. Don't worry; as soon as I know she's sleeping I come and get it from her so her teeth don't rot.
She will usually call out for an extra prayer, drink refill or a trip to the potty three or four times over the next half hour. All requests Jeremy will fill with a skip in his step.
Sometimes she just needs some more hugging time or to find out if we're sleeping yet. Um.. that's a no. She also likes to update us on her status -- Abby's not sleeping yet, or Abby's playing with her dollies, or Abby likes milk. Sometimes she just can't contain her love and needs to yell out her innermost thoughts and feelings about how much she loves and misses us. I can't
reciprocate the missing her stage less than an hour into her bedtime.
And the list goes on and on and on and on.
Should I cut out her
nap time so she'll go to bed on time at night? Should I make her bedtime later (maybe from 7 to 8)? Should I just put her to bed and let her have "quiet" time by herself for that hour? Any advice?